When it comes to getting down and dirty there are so many things to consider turning that moment into an Oscar-winning event.
It’s absolutely mind-blowing to know exactly what works for you or your partner under sheets, but at the same sticking to just one technique makes sex boring. According to Lori Buckley, Ph.D., a sex therapist in California, lack of spontaneity in the bedroom reduces sexual arousal, so it’s important to always spice things up, you know, once in while bringing out the naughtier side; tease, tempt and make sure you thoroughly, please! Point is, just make sure you have the best sex of your life.
Everyone enjoys sex, the experience should be exciting, pleasurable and mind-blowing! First and foremost, to get your world rocked in bed for the best orgasmic delights, you and your partner need to communicate, be in tune with each other’s body and most importantly go with the flow as long as it feels good for both of you.
But if you are constantly thinking about whether you left the stove on when your partner is sexually frolicking you, then it may be time to spice things up.
According to experts, there are uncountable unexplored techniques and areas that you can include in your sex repertoire or if you like sexpertoir.
Foreplay is very important in any sexual experience; its intimate, intense and mostly far sexier than intercourse itself.
So, why is foreplay really important? For men, sexual foreplay means you get to have more sex. And that’s something most guys are into, right? On the other hand, foreplay for women is a vital prerequisite for mind-blowing orgasmic delights.
Treat this as a warm of the main event. One of three women cannot climax on sex alone, this becomes reason enough that intercourse alone cannot get her to orgasm but rather the pre-sex activities.
As much as foreplay equals more sex, men don’t recognize the worth of sexual foreplay-you know that perfectly placed pecking, stroking, the suckling or gentle bites- even if women fancy such.
According to Mark Epstein, MD a psychiatrist and author of Open Desire: Embracing a Luster for Life, exploring female sexuality can still be perfected, in actuality, men fear foreplay because they are preoccupied with the fear of losing their erection.
Besides what we have seen, here is what you need to know before having an intercourse i.e. the simple to enhance the experience.
Before having an intercourse make sure that you have a condom readily available if you are not ready to have kids and to eliminate chances of STI contraction. Condoms are perfect contraceptives; however, lack of proper use will not have the expected results.
There is nothing as uncomfortable as having sex on a full bladder. You will last longer, be more pleasurable and exciting on an empty bladder.
A little bit of Dutch courage, you know- a glass or two of wine can help you loosen up especially when it comes to communicating with your partner about what you want exactly.
If you are facing problems getting wet, get some vaginal lubricants which are preferably water soluble such as KY jelly. Also, you can opt for scented or flavored ones.
Surprise your partner with a sexy piece, show him that you are just as interested in and excited about the whole love making the experience as he is.